Hey Simon,
First off, this is good news, for me, as I have the Nvidia model and thought that was my issue, but seeing as you have intel, it gives me some hope. Anyway here are some ideas:
So I have been working on this for a few weeks, DP2 installed without issue, but had issues afterward, lock ups etc... On DP4 Ive managed to get it going, some what, but here are some ideas, all random results. First, I had to remove my modular dvd-rw drive and had to use the boot flags -v arch=i386 cpus=1. I managed to get it to install, but even then Ive still had the random lockups (Ive been doing many reinstalls, trying to reproduce the same results so that I can provide the D630 users with a sure fire way to do this install and also put together a package to help it go smoothly). Another way Ive done it and it went more smoothly was to remove all kexts except FakeSMC, this assumes you have a USB mouse and keyboard. The install goes great, but still had to use "-v arch=i386 cpus=1". Once installed Lion is extremely slow because its not utilizing the Graphics CI/QE. it does detect it as being the Quadro NVS 135m, but with only 3mb vram and doesnt detect the displays. Im sure this is something easy to fix, I just havent gotten that far on my project to worry about those things yet. As you are using the Intel graphics you may not have the same issues that I'm having.
I hope I gave you some ideas on how to get further along on your install experience, sometimes I miss things, if you have any questions, ask and I'll help you out the best I can.
Forgot to also mention you need to either add your dsdt.aml to the Extra dir or NullCPUPowerManagement.kext to the /Extra/Extensions directory or you will get a KP. I used the DSDT.aml because I wanted to deal with limited kexts so I would be able to narrow down issues better.