I patched this with this ssdtPRGen.sh script but didn't notice any difference. But thank you very much for your help.
ok, now the startup behavior seems perfect. I had the dell in sleep mode for a while and came back, opened the lid, pressed any and the power button and what else and no reaction. The System was frozen. After restart the system showed up as normal. In the early setups with 10.13 I had to press the power button to wake the system up. Is there a possibility to get a wake up by just open the lid?